Tea (and prayer) time

 

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Here it is, my beautiful tea set.
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I prayed for Vonnie here.

I wanted to show you the gorgeous tea set I write about below but I’ll have to wait until I can upload it. Try to imagine it until it appears above. (I found it!)

When I was a kid, Diane and I played house – a lot. We didn’t have a two-parent household so I just “played” at what I gathered at school from classmates who, to me, had a normal home life.

I longed for a mom and dad for us. A dad who worked all day, came home and ate supper with us, then played with us until time for bed. Since that didn’t happen, I used our dolls as a family, then served meals with our plastic tea set.

We didn’t just play house. I loved dinosaurs, too, and played with those at Aunt Mary’s house in Kewanee.

I don’t know how many years ago it was but Vonnie and I were shopping in Peoria when we decided to visit Pier One. We loved that store and it usually took several trips around the inside in order to see everything.

I saw the tea set I wanted, but I gave it some time and looked at other things. I came back to the set and decided to buy it. At that time I didn’t drink tea; I just wanted to re-live my childhood.

Years later Vonnie needed a silent auction gift so I gave her the set. It’s such a beautiful color and we thought someone would grab it but it didn’t sell, so it came home with her. She kept it atop her refrigerator for a long time until one day, when she decided to have a yard sale. She mentioned she was selling it and I, of course, was broke.

I asked if she’d consider selling it to me and I think she forgot how she got it. When I told her, she insisted I take it home. Some time passed, but eventually I brought it home.

Lots of things remind me of her: Kohl’s ads, inspirational books, Philippians 4:6-7, Bible studies, Chevy Tahoes – and my tea set.

Memories. Gotta love ’em. Cherish yours and make as many good ones as you possibly can.

Margi
January 20, 2018

So that’s why my feet hurt

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Ah, wearing the right pair of shoes makes all the difference!

 

Seriously?

Yesterday I had so much to do for Gary I met myself coming and going. A big part of being able to handle that much running around depends on the pain level in my legs and feet, and yesterday the discomfort was off the charts. I just chalked it up to too much walking and getting in and out of the car.

Well. The first inclination that something was amiss came when I almost tripped up the outside steps bringing in a load of stuff from the car. I thought, “Great. These shoes aren’t all that old and they’re already falling apart.”

Okay, I get it. I’m 65 and bound to make some missteps (pun intended) when it comes to everyday living but, hey, when I noticed I was wearing two different shoes I have to admit that took me aback.

The shoes are very similar. They’re black tie-ons but I still thought they were far enough away from each other that this could never have happened. But it did and boy did it feel funny walking all over Creation wearing them.

Makes me wonder if I’m the right person to be caring for my sweetheart. I haven’t told him yet – I mean, what if he fires me?

Nah, he wouldn’t do that.

Margi
January 19, 2018

High hopes, half realized

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Sunrise. I didn’t take this pic, but it’s free and I like it.

 

When I opened my eyes this morning I knew it was Doctor Day – finally.

Gary was in an unusually good mood and I think I know why. Some folks will tell you they’re “fine”, or even “feeling better” even when they definitely are NOT. He’s one of those folks. I asked him to please not respond that way to the nurse and doctor if they asked him how he felt. He got grouchy again and said he wouldn’t.

We got there on time, and out came the nurse with some news. “We have an ‘issue’ with the breathing machine,” she started to say and that’s when I noticed Gary get agitated. She said the printer used with the machine was out of ink – yes, I said out of ink – and did we want to reschedule?

Gary piped right up and told her in no uncertain terms he wouldn’t make to the “next time”. She explained someone forgot to order ink but if he wanted to see the doctor anyway he could do it but there would be no breath test and no results.

Cutting to the chase, the doctor gave us some inhaler-type medicine (I found out later it would cost us over $700 a month for that medicine, so that’s a no-go.) and two prescriptions, one for use in a nebulizer. I called the place where we could get one (Medicare pays for that) but they told me they had none and weren’t going to be getting any more – ever.

I went to Walmart to get his meds, gave back the nebulizer medicine and was told they had no clue where to get a nebulizer. Back to the doctor’s office and was given a number in Geneseo to see if they have any. If not, I’m to Google them and see where I can fine one.

I’m pooped. Seriously pooped. He’s had a dose of his new meds and is sleeping. So, we got half of what we need and we’re on a new quest to get the rest.

Margi
January 17, 2018

No words

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My sweetheart

 

Well, not many.

It hurt too much to stay home, and I had to go to work anyway. At work, I found my friend in a very bad place and it was all I could do to hold it together for her.

At home, again, I cried – mostly out of exhaustion, fear and love for my best friend, my husband. I don’t like to wish time away but I can’t wait until tomorrow when we WILL get answers. I won’t leave until we do, and I mean that with every fiber of my being.

If you read this far, and if you feel so inclined, I would appreciate your prayers. Gary needs relief from whatever he’s suffering from and I’m praying he will find that blessed relief tomorrow.

Tomorrow. Please, come soon.

Margi
January 16, 2018

Warm cherry pie and love

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Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow.

 

It’s cold outside. The snow is coming. And I’ve already been to the store so this gal will be staying inside for the next day or two.

There is no work for me on Monday, because of the holiday, but I always manage to work a few hours anyway. It’s important to keep up with the ever-changing court schedule since it seems crime does not take a holiday, even federal ones.

I bought a crumbly-topped cherry pie today to bake for Gary. It’s now his favorite. He needed a few more things out there but he’s awfully reluctant to send me out because he knows how much pain it puts me in, but what he doesn’t realize is, I’m used to it.

Tonight we’ll have leftover spaghetti and tomorrow I’ll try out the new CrockPot Express – kind of a combination pressure cooker and crockpot. I was always afraid of pressure cookers but this one seems safe enough. I want to make tasty and healthful meals for us and this seemed like a great choice.

Yesterday I brought up the idea of getting a kitten and promised we would wait until he’s better. I pray it doesn’t take long, but for his sake, not because I want a furry friend NOW.

I hope this finds you inside where it’s warm, spending time with someone you love and can laugh with. At the moment he’s snuggled up on the sofa, sleeping. He won’t admit it but he seems to rest a whole lot easier when I’m around. I think that’s pretty sweet.

Gosh, I thank God I found just the right guy to spend the rest of my life with.

Margi
January 14, 2018

Here, kitty, kitty, kitty

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This was Mittens, Gary’s mom’s cat. Such a cutie!

 

Oh, I can’t wait. I want a kitten or young cat and I want it now.

But “now” isn’t quite the right time. When Gary’s on the mend I’ll bring it up again, but for now he’s not up to a new and frisky presence in the house. He needs healing and rest and the right diagnosis and most likely, more meds.

But…I believe it would be good for him (and me) to have a furry companion. I want to buy the necessities, and toys, and especially beds and cat trees. I want to give my Amazon boxes to Bernadette (yes, I’ve already picked out a name) and watch her jump in and out of them.

I want Bernie to curl up next to us and sleep, to come zipping through the rooms and pounce.

I want to adopt from a private party; hopefully, to have Bernie “pick us” as we look for her.

I want to say, “Here, kitty, kitty, kitty.” Dear, sweet Bernie, I can’t wait to meet you.

Margi
January 12, 2018

Yes, indeed, I skipped a day

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My sweetheart, when he could stand up straight and felt better.

 

I was too angry yesterday to write. I don’t like that feeling.

I’d called the doctor’s office multiple times between Monday and Wednesday to get Gary in for the breathing test they didn’t schedule until the 17th (why?!) and from what I could gather from a phone message, the nurse was wondering why the late date too.

I sat with the phone next to me after work on Wednesday, all the way up until 10 p.m. I know that’s silly but geez, I watch Gary struggle and I guess silliness is now a part of who I am.

Eventually I got through Thursday after work and after being on hold while someone talked to the nurse, the woman came back on the line and told me they were just awfully busy and if I was that worried about Gary we should take him to the ER or “prompt care”.

What?

Apparently Gary heard what was said (I had the phone on speaker) and he said he wasn’t going to ER, he’d just keep his appointment for next Wednesday.

I’ve been crying off and on all week from worry. And yes, I pray, but I’m human. I won’t apologize for that. I will go in with him that day but I don’t trust myself to speak, only to listen. I can’t fathom how the doctor and/or nurse couldn’t spare 15 or 20 minutes during the last few days for a long-time patient with breathing problems.

The anger has dissipated a bit. That’s a good thing because it’s an awful feeling and I’ve been working hard to find better ways to handle my emotions.

Just don’t count on me being successful with those when my loved ones are involved. I tend to get a tad ticked off and weepy.

Just sayin’.

Margi
January 11, 2018